Wedding Invitations, Civil Ceremony invitations, Naming Ceremony and Christening invitations. Based in Brighton, we pride ourselves on our gorgeous Eco friendly Wedding Invitations with handmade papers made by a friend in Thailand and wherever possible use papers from sustainable forests.
Don't forget to look at the texture of our Handmade Paper wedding Invitations and Scrolls. The rest of our range uses the most gorgeous textured card we have seen and really feels just as fabulous as it sounds.
Luxurious and Exclusive is our motto. The result is a beautiful and individual design. We offer a flexible and individual service and we are able to adapt the designs to incorporate any ideas you may have to make your stationery unique to you.
The idea of Couture Wedding Invitations has just got closer to home.
Top tips from handmade by 'me'
At Last!! Our New Wedding Invitations Brochure
is available to view online.
this will soon be available as a DVD watch this space please ignore any references to buy don’t know how to get rid of that
March 1, 2010 No Comments
Wedding Invitation Ideas for 2010
Here are our latest Wedding Invitations. Click the slide show to pause or enlarge to view up close our designs
January 4, 2010 No Comments
Wedding Invitation Trends 2010 Vintage Lace Wedding Invitations

The new trend for wedding invitations is lace lace lace!!!!!
We have launched by huge demand a traditional lace wedding invitation
The lace we are currently using for our vintage wedding invitation range is Cluny lace
The flower / floral design in each scallop on both edges is a slighter darker ecru / natural colour than the main ecru of the lace – this is deliberately this colour so this little floral / flower design stands out a little which makes the lace unique to Cluny.
This lace is 3 1/2″ inches wide with two scalloped ‘eyelash’ edges and with a very pretty floral / flower Cluny pattern design. It is made with quality fine gauge cotton.
This lace and all our laces are very ‘vintage‘ in style .They are made on these old machines and it is the closest you will ever get to handmade cotton lace – made in such a way as to simulate the old fashioned handmade lace. You can see if you look closely in the picture the lace is not completely ’flat’ as the pattern, in this case, the flowers, it is outlined on the surface of the lace.
This is the same in all Cluny laces. So, there are two sides to all Cluny laces with the ‘outlined’ side always being sewn uppermost on the object or garment. We are very proud of the laces as they are made today and I don’t think you will find any better cotton laces in the world.
(Please note this is NOT flimsy nylon lace but good quality fine gauge Cotton Leavers Lace)
All the laces are still made in England today – by the family of lace manufacturers – Cluny Lace
Their company- the last manufacturers of cotton leavers laces in the UK, is owned and managed by the eighth and ninth generations of family – they were already framework knitters and flax dressers by the 1730s and started making lace when this fabric was first produced by machines in the 1760s, at the start of the Industrial Revolution. Throughout the last one hundred and fifty years Cluny Lace has continued to build up a data bank of hundreds of lace patterns. By combining the best of old traditions with new technology we are still able to produce in a wide range of exquisite designs of Leavers Cluny style lace allovers, edgings and insertions and Leavers Fine Cotton Valenciennes style lace allovers, edgings, galloons and insertions. Many of the lace patterns still used today were designed and draughted by the sixth and seventh generations of the family. No other manufacturer in the world produces the same range of patterns and these patterns are unique to Cluny.
A Leavers machine is in fact two machines; a wide machine working on the principle invented by Mr. John Leavers in Nottingham, England in 1813, twists together the threads to form a fast net, and a jacquard machine, adapted for use on the Leavers machines between 1836 and 1841, puts in the patterns. 
The machine weighs 17 tons and twists 10,000 threads simultaneously to make this beautiful lace.

The Leavers machine is said to be the most complicated textile machine in the world.
When the laces are made on these huge old machines the resulting lace comes off the machine in a colour we call ‘greige‘. This is the raw undyed cotton which is also fairly dirty from the black lead which is used in making the machines run smoothly. In order to dye the lace to whites (which incidentally there are 120 different shades of!) / ecru or any other colour the lace has to go through a rigorous process of scouring, dyeing and finishing in extreme temperatures and is stretched on large looms to pull the cotton laces back into shape and to set the width. All the laces have a 3 to 5 % composite which is not cotton - usually nylon and occasionally polyester to help the cotton hold in the dyeing process and cope with modern washing machines which would ruin the lace without it! In the ‘trade’ strictly speaking a garment or fabric can be called cotton as long as it has at least 95% cotton composition – which all Cluny laces have.
November 23, 2009 3 Comments
New Wedding Invitations Wording and Suggestions 2010
Here we have compiled some sample wedding invitations wording for you to use. If you wish to copy this wording for your site then we please request that you put a link back to our site. Otherwise we are happy for you use this wording for your own personal invitations
Sample Wording Below
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Traditional Wedding Invitation wording comes from the Brides Parents Mr & Mrs Wakefield Request the honour of your presence Laura-Jayne Elizabeth Son of On 5th January 2011 St George’s Church, Barton-in-Fabis, |
In some cultures it is customary to include both sets of parents
Mr & Mrs Wakefield Request the pleasure of your company Laura-Jayne Elizabeth On 5th January 2011 |
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We are hosting our own wedding - how do we word our wedding invitations? Ms Laura-Jayne Elizabeth Wakefield Request the pleasure of your company On 5th January 2011 St George’s Church, Barton-in-Fabis, |
We want both sets of parents to be hosting so how do we word our wedding invitations? Mr & Mrs Wakefield and their daughter Together with Mr & Mrs Austin and their son Request the honour of your presence Laura-Jayne Elizabeth |
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My parent is a single parent so how do we word our wedding invitations? Mr Wakefield At the marriage of his daughter Laura-Jayne Elizabeth On 5th January 2011 St George’s Church, Barton-in-Fabis, |
My parents are divorced and have remarried and I wanted to include my stepparent-how do we word our wedding invitations? Jane & Tom Brown At the marriage of Jane Brown’s daughter Laura-Jayne Elizabeth Wakefield Son of Mr & Mrs Austin On 5th January 2011 |
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My parents are divorced how do we word our wedding invitations? Mr Wakefield At the marriage of their daughter Laura-Jayne Elizabeth Wakefield On 5th January 2011 |
We want someone else to host our wedding how do we word our wedding invitations? If the host of the wedding is neither the bride nor the groom’s parents, but another relation, you should word the invitation submitting the word daughter/son and adding the hosts’ relationship. Grandparents = granddaughter/grandson Aunt and uncle = niece/nephew Godparents = goddaughter/godson Foster parents = foster daughter/foster son Brother = sister/brother Sister = sister/brother The wedding’s going to be a joint one
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| The bridal bouquet was thrown, and the garter was tossed! By all present, our love was known, Announcing the marriage of |
BRIDE PARENTS GROOM PARENTS have the honor of announcing the marriage of |
| BRIDE and GROOM Just letting you know! We were married in a small ceremony |
BRIDE’S PARENTS announce the marriage of their daughter BRIDE to GROOM |
| Life of caring and sharing, a love of endless giving together . . . The honor of your presence is requested at the reaffirmation of wedding vows of |
BRIDE Please join them for a celebration on |
| As the flower blooms and petals unfold, we’re soon to say “to have and to hold.” We’ve made the plans and can hardly wait. Our wedding is near and here is the date! We’re getting married on __________________ Please join us for a day to remember! |
Pressing the vision into our hearts, |
| Making their friendship so true after great times and happiness, they’ve said, “I do!” |
Because you have shared in their lives by your friendship and love, the honor of your presence is requested at the reaffirmation of the wedding vows of ________________________ Just married! |
| Because you’ve shared in their lives by your friendship and love, we are very proud to share the happy news. BRIDE daughter of PARENTS and GROOM son of PARENTS were married in a small wedding |
From the moment they met it was a beautiful thing. They knew some day they’d hear wedding bells ring! |
| BRIDE and GROOM are happy to announce their marriage. Please join them for a celebration on |
We’ve Eloped! BRIDE and GROOM |
| Two lives, two hearts joined together in friendship, united forever in love. It is with joy that we, |
Mr. _________ requests the honor |
| Mr. and Mrs. ____________ Request the honor of your presence At the marriage of their daughter/son ___________ |
Mr. and Mrs. ___________ |
| Mr. and Mrs. __________ request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their granddaughter/grandson ________________ |
I never believed love could be so sweet, so overwhelming, so tender. Then I met you. |
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Let this be Our destiny. |
Let this Be our destiny. |
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This day I will marry my friend,
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Each of us a half. incomplete |
| As our marriage brings new meaning to love, So our love brings new meaning to life! |
This day I will marry my friend, the one I laugh with, live for, dream with, and love |
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Happiness is so narrow |
For hearing my thoughts, For filling my life with music I still do!!! |
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I took his hand to have and to hold. |
Just like a page out of a fairy tale, |
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Two lives – Two hearts |
We met at a masquerade ball. Although I didn’t lose my glass slipper, |
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On our wedding day, |
The miracle of love is |
| The promise of our life together is as bright as the Colors of the rainbow |
In the sweetness of love, |
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How beautiful is the day |
The most joyous of occasions |
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We walked through the meadow He just smiled and took my hand. |
Love is that bridge |
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Marriage. |
A life of sharing, caring Mr. and Mrs. ___________ |
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With joyful hearts |
Together with their parents |
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Mr. and Mrs. ____________ |
We have experienced love. |
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We invite you to be with us |
Happily we two |
| Mr. and Mrs. ___________ have the honor of announcing the marriage of their daughter/son |
Mr. and Mrs. ___________ announce the marriage of their daughter/son |
| We invite you to be with us as we begin our new life together on. If you are unable to attend, |
The miracle of love is that love is given to us to give to one another. ______________ and ________________ invite you to share a day of happiness as they begin a life of love |
| Love fills a lifetime and a lifetime begins this hour when the two of us ________________ and ________________ begin a new life together. We invite you to share |
What began with our African ancestors, continues as two families become one. With joyfully hearts the parents of _______________ and _______________ invite you to witness the marriage of their children |
| ________ bought the ring and ________________ said yes! There’s going to be a wedding, and we hope you’ll be our guest. |
A romantic affair. Something special is in the air! Kindly save the date for a tropical marriage celebration uniting |
| It’s written in the stars that they were meant to be. So write on your calendar There’s going to be a wedding! |
Before BRIDE and GROOM can walk down the aisle |
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November 15, 2009 2 Comments
Table Plan your Stress Free Wedding
| 6 reasons to use Handmade By me for your Table Plan |
| 1. Use us for any number of Guests from a small wedding reception to a 2000+ seat banquet. |
| 2. We are easier and faster than scraps of paper or Excel |
| 3. We can assign seats automatically. |
| 4. We can manage your guest details, RSVPs, meal choices and preferences. |
| 5. We can experiment with table shapes and sizes. |
| 6. Print elegant floor plans, seating charts, place/escort cards and other stationery. |
For any occasion unassigned seats sounds fabulous in theory and may be one less chore for the organiser.
Reasons why you should do a table plan?
There may be an unseemly rush for what are considered to be the ‘great’ seats.
It will take so much longer to get your Friends and family seated if you do not allocate their seats and the last few guests who arrive fashionably late to arrive find themselves walking around looking for empty seats.
Couples May need to be split up as there may be only single seats left and some older relatives may end up seated where they can’t see or hear anything.
November 6, 2009 No Comments
Engagement to Wedding- What Stationery Do I need to plan my wedding?
Congratulations you are now officially engaged!!!! The advert has been run in the Telegraph.
Now the fun begins
To set the tone for your big day there will have to be a lot of planning to keep the keep you wedding stationery consistent with the Wedding Invitations may require some planning on your part. To help you we have prepared a list of which invitations you need.
- Engagement Party Invitations – The engagement invitations announce to your family and friends and that you have taken the next step in your relationship and are formalising your commitment to each other and wish to spend the rest of your life with the person you love. The engagement invitations can be totally different to your wedding invitations and don’t have to cost the earth. More importantly it is highly unlikely you will know your colour schemes at this stage of your plans.
- Save the Date Cards - These are really designed to let your guests know prior to your wedding the date you have in mind. These are generally sent out at least 12 months before the big day and inform your guests of the day and place of the wedding. These are perfect for overseas weddings whereby people would have to save up for the trip.
- Bridal Shower Invitation or Kitchen Tea – Your bridal shower or kitchen tea is an optional event and is becoming more popular in the UK as each year passes. These should only reflect the time, date and location of the event. Many people are now doing this by text and email to save on costs.
- Hens or Stag Night Invitations – Hens and Stag Nights usually include a theme and may be undertaken in remote location, such as a weekend away etc. These are normally provided by the organisers if you are having them.
- Wedding invitations – Your wedding invitations should be sent out 6-8 weeks prior to the event if you are In Ireland and the USA however in England they tend to send these out 3 months before the big day. This is the first indication of the theme of the wedding so it is important to take time over choosing the correct invitation. It is important to let your guests know who is hosting the event ie Mum, Dad or you etc where and when the wedding will take place as well as the formalness and dress code of your big day. Generally it is good manners to include an RSVP so that your guests can inform you of their intentions of coming and Dietary requirements. It is usually accepted to include a stamp for them to do this. You could also take it one step further and make your own stamps with your picture on it. (Smilers)
- These should be sent to each couple, Single Guest plus their Partner or guest, and to a whole family it is also polite to send one to the priest however they rarely attend.
Order of Service programs – These are becoming less popular but are a nice idea so that your guests can better follow the ceremony. It is also a good idea for the readers and allows the ceremony to be seamless.
Table Plans Menus and Place cards all work together and are used in the reception venue to identify the seating arrangement for your guests informing them of where they should sit. What they are eating etc.
Thank you cards - Thank you cards let your guest know that you appreciate them coming to your wedding and also gives you an opportunity to thank them for their gift. These should be sent out no more than 8 weeks after the wedding. It is also possible to personalise your thank yous with the actual gift received and will save you valuable time later on when you have returned to work.
October 26, 2009 No Comments
Loyalty program
October 23, 2009 No Comments
Launch of In House Design Service For Wedding Invitations
Through your wedding Invitations you are choosing the most important thing for your wedding. You are setting the tone be it formal casual or classic the first impression people glimpse of your wedding will be colours and theme. Many of your guests will be purchasing their outfits to compliment your theme so it is very important to set the tone correctly.
Some couples look at a few ideas and make their decision based on recommendation or what they have seen in a magazine.
Your personal designer at Handmade By me will discuss all the design options with you and will make suggestions to ensure your invitations are one off designs. Most of options discussed will cost you very little if any extra over the standard designs in our range.
There are a number of options available for wedding invitations, ideas that will set your wedding apart from the rest and certainly make it more memorable.
Our in house designer will cover the following points before you make your final choice of design.
When exploring different styles for your wedding invitations, they will help you to make sure that you do not accidentally leave out something important and will discuss the finer details with you.
They will always offer you a chance to further customise your design so that you have the exact invitations that you want in the end.
Every couple will be allocated their own designer who will help them make their choices perfectly to compliment their wedding theme.
October 21, 2009 2 Comments
Postal Strike how this may effect your Wedding Invitations
The industrial action at Royal Mail may be causing delays to posted items in some areas of the UK. From the business Link Website
Royal Mail are keeping their customers informed of the planned industrial action and on ways to avoid delays on its website:
During the strikes, if possible we prefer to use our Courier rather than using the post. This costs a little extra @ £6.99 but it is well worth the money for the piece of mind.
If you still prefer to use Royal Mail during the strike, you might want to consider:
- Letting your Guests know that there may be a delay in their invitations being received.
- Taking your post to a Post Office as it is more likely to be collected than from a post box
- sending post by Special Delivery.– but check with Post Office staff that these services are running.
- Using our alternative courier to deliver your invitations means you avoid the delay.
- Consumer Focus, the consumer watchdog, is also offering postal users general advice on its website:
- Find out about the impact of the strike for consumers on the Consumer Focus website
The Communication Workers Union voted in favour of national action, meaning the earliest any national action can take place will be in mid October.
We strongly request that you choose our courier option on checkout.
October 15, 2009 1 Comment
Wedding Memorabilia latest idea for Weddings and Christenings
I wonder how many married women made or maybe only thought about making a scrap book or album of their “Wedding Memorabilia”.
Items that may have been included are Wedding Invitations, Order Of Service, Wedding Guests and Gift lists. When did you last look at yours? Are they still languishing in a box somewhere?
There must be thousands of wedding dresses carefully wrapped in tissue paper gathering dust at the back of the nation’s cupboards.
Handmade by ‘me’ have encapsulated your “treasured memories” with their Wedding Themed Couture Memory Boards in such a way as to breathe new life into your precious keepsakes.
A must have for any of this years weddings!!
October 11, 2009 No Comments

